Sunday, December 09, 2012

Do not journal divorce feelings

ScienceDaily reports:
Following a divorce or separation, many people are encouraged by loved ones or health-care professionals to keep journals about their feelings. But for some, writing in-depth about those feelings immediately after a split may do more harm than good, according to new research.

In a study of 90 recently divorced or separated individuals, psychological scientist David Sbarra of the University of Arizona and colleagues found that writing about one's feelings can actually leave some people feeling more emotionally distraught months down the line, particularly those individuals who are prone to seeking a deeper meaning for their failed marriage.

The findings, forthcoming in Clinical Psychological Science, a journal of the Association for Psychological Science, came as a surprise to Sbarra, who initially set out to compare the effectiveness of two different styles of expressive writing on the emotional healing of recently separated or divorced individuals.
That is why I do not write in-depth about my divorce feelings on this blog.

As usual, those who listen to advice from shrinks end up worse off.


Southern Man said...

Hmmmm...I started my own blog in part for that reason as my sixteen-year marriage was ending. And now I've kept it up for six years and now have, like five regular commenters. Three of whom go by the handle "anon."

Huh said...

One should also be concerned that her lawyers might get hold of the journal and use it against you somehow.