A reader asks if I know where my wife sleeps when she is with her boyfriend and the kids.
I don't know. My wife has told the kids a carefully constructed set of lies to the kids. She does sleep over at Bruce's house, with the kids, on a regular basis. She has told the kids that Bruce is not really a boyfriend, and that they should not talk about Bruce or his house to me. I don't know where they all sleep, as I doubt that Bruce has enough beds for everyone.
I don't like to ask about the situation, because the kids know that their mom is lying to them, and the subject is painful for them.
I expect that our divorce decree will issue soon, and then my wife will be an ex-wife, and she will announce to the kids that she and Bruce have started dating. The kids will not be surprised, as they know that she has been dating Bruce since before the divorce filing.
I do hope that the kids have better morals when they grow up.